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Fake-claimers when someone isn't outwardly suffering enough: they're FAKING. It's CRINGE.
Tw r/fake disorder cringe
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God fucking FORBID a mentally ill person makes a silly little flag for their silly little mental illness! What? Awareness? Pride instead of shame? Fun? Sorry no, you have to be suffering CONSTANTLY to be mentally ill, because some fuckface on reddit said so! (HEAVY SARCASM)
And yes, I'm pissed off about this. Why? Because mentally ill people can't fucking do anything without being ridiculed. Shut the fuck up and let us EXIST and be VISIBLE. GOD.
self proclaimed schizoposter nervously typing '911' into their phone and hovering their thumb above the 'call' key as they hawkishly watch a disheveled guy at a bus stop make repetitive movements and ramble to himself
If i ever saw someone using any disability as insult,i am turning the schizospec murder in movies
As a kind gift for my fellow ADHD friends; Player? Neurodivergent. Hotel? Trivago.
@playerappreciationweek
Summary:
During a 'routine' prisoner psychological intake examination on Carmen Sandiego's favourite little hacker, Maelstrom finds something. Something Player isn't too happy to learn.
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Alternatively: Maelstrom takes one look at Player and immediately clocks him as neurodivergent
(Made for Player Week Day 4 "I'm happy here in my dark little cave.")
I haven't been on here much I've been going through a lot I've dealt with so much mental, emotional and financial abuse from my caretakers and I just wanted to share my story, get some support and show my poetry because due to the things I had to deal with I wasn't able to do things I'm passionate about but I'm trying to get out of that
I tagged my gofund.me so I can escape and finally get out of this house before my mental health gets worse
https://gofund.me/9411426b
TW: Alleged sexual interactions with minors, violence, racism, homophobia.
We did not create any of the document(s) and website(s) linked here. We are not stating that this individual is definitively guilty of anything. This is all alleged information. Please come to your own conclusions. This blog and post is for educational and entertainment purposes.
As many are aware, the Fate community recently came together to push out a user on Twitter last week (@/chaeyatxt, all other handles shown here are former handles that he used as well within the span of the last year or so) who allegedly had sexual conversations with minors in his Discord server. Once these allegations were made public, many other Twitter users came forward with additional testimonies regarding this individual. The most concerning allegations within these testimonies were that this individual had lied about his race and identity in order to discriminate against, manipulate, and harass other Twitter users off the platform.
Said user has gone many names and handles, but is most commonly referred to as Merlin. However, Merlin took little accountability, instead deactivating his Twitter and migrating to this platform. As a result, we will be informing users here of what took place so that they might avoid him. His current handle on Tumblr is @/lesbianismbutloser, but he is known to change his username frequently, often daily. In particular, he seems to change it whenever someone brings up his alleged previous actions and username(s) here.
If reading about this individual’s alleged prior behavior makes you uncomfortable, we recommend blocking him, as blacklisting will be very difficult. At the time he deactivated his Twitter account, he had stated himself to be 21 years old.
His alleged inappropriate behavior with minors included some individuals as young as 14 years old, who will not be named or specified for their safety and privacy. The following are alleged records of this individual’s sexual conversations with minors, as well as other concerning behavior:
Document alleging he had a Discord server channel whose purpose was to give "sex education" to minors. (Link to the creator's twitter post).
Follow-up document of testimonies from minors involved in the above allegation. (Link to the creator's twitter post).
Website that showcases the alleged contradictions in his identity and medical history.
Document showcasing a detailed Twitter report about his alleged racism and harassment.
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Below are some examples from the documents, as well as some captures from the WayBackMachine that show his previous tweets. We advise caution and to reread our content/trigger warnings at the top:
Examples of alleged sexual interactions with minors (we recommend reading the full story on the documents linked above):
It is alleged he lied about being a "sex educator" and "sexual therapist" in order to have these sexual conversations with children.
Example of other alleged crimes:
Examples of alleged racism, homophobia, and race faking:
Merlin states he is not Asian in 2021 but later states he is in 2022.
There are many more alleged contradictions in his identity. Again, please read the full context in the documents and websites link above.
Thank you for reading and please stay safe.
this!!!
If you advocate for mental health awareness, but joke about things like intrusive thoughts and schizophrenia, think it’s disgusting and lazy when people who are depressed can’t do things like showering or cleaning their room, use terms like “narcissistic abuse”, and believe that having ASPD, BPD, or NPD makes someone a bad person, you are not a mental health advocate. You don’t actually care about helping people or de-stigmatizing mental illness, you just want to make yourself feel like you do. You can’t pick and choose what disorders and symptoms are acceptable, and which ones make someone a bad person. Either you support everyone, or you support no one.
and if you’re neurodivergent/mentally ill and you do any of those things, you are part of the problem. there’s no such thing as “good/moral” disorders, or “bad/immoral” disorders. We all need to have each other’s backs.
Yes, I have another oc slasher but this one in particular has a girl boss vibe
Sorry the description of the drawing is very small, it's just that the space is small and it wouldn't fit much
Tradução:
sim, tenho mais um oc slasher mas este em especifico tem vibe de chefona
desculpa a descrição do desenho estar muito pequena, é que o espaço é pequeno e não caberia muito
Thank goodness I'm not the only one who finds it unsettling.
Just a reminder that people who still live with their parents as adults deserve respect and for you to stop being ableist. There are multiple reasons someone could still live with their parents! From invisible to visible disabilities, finance issues, and more!
Stop using the “well they’re gonna turn into a creep living in their parents basement” punchline! It’s disgusting. STOP. BEING. ABLEIST. STOP. FORGETTING. THE. POOR.
Sometimes I remember I experienced my first microaggression as an infant and get really upset about it.
Obviously I have no personal memory of the events, but I was at a parent-child class of some sort and when everyone started singing in a group I started crying. I was clearly, in retrospect, overstimulated. When my parents were leaving, they heard another mother say, "What's wrong with that baby?" referring to me, and my dad had to stop my mom from knocking the woman flat.
Anyway, nothing was wrong with "that baby." "That baby" just turned out to be autistic. But knowing people felt that way about me from the beginning does cut pretty deep, even though I'm in my 30s now.
Filming people without their consent is a massive issue of not only privacy but ableism that's been going on for many years.
It started out with filming more visibly disabled people, like high support needs autistic people having meltdowns in public and (especially fat) disabled people literally just using mobility aids, but once that was deemed less acceptable it moved to other things. Filming people acting "weird" in public. Eating weird foods. Falling asleep in weird places. Wearing weird things. Stimming. You get the idea. It's no longer safe to be visibly weird in public and that's an issue for a lot of disabled people. I recently had to lay down on the floor of a department store because I had an ME crash while out shopping. Not only did I have to worry about the normal things like people coming up to ask me if I'm ok, I also had to worry about some video of me at my lowest point, when I'm suffering immensely, being shared around as "haha look at this weird bitch on the floor". It's upsetting. It's scary.
And then there's fakeclaiming. A fun trend where people will film us in public to "prove" there's some kind of huge epidemic of people faking disability. Spoiler alert: there is not. Most of the time the people they film are real disabled people who don't fit into the expected mold for disability, usually service dog teams or people who use mobility aids who don't "look sick". And you would think this trend would be some kind of abled nonsense, but it's not. It's often other disabled people doing the fakeclaiming. Yes, there are some times when it's obvious a service dog isn't trained properly, but other than that, it's damn near impossible to tell if someone is faking a disability, and you're much more likely to target a disabled person than a faker. I'd love to say this trend was new, but it's been going on since the days of "the people of walmart" where many of the people posted were fat mobility aid users, always with the assumption that they used it because they were too fat or lazy to move on their own. In fact, the image of a fat person in a mobility cart has become almost synonymous with "lazy". It's one of the things that drove me to get my own expensive power wheelchair, to avoid the judgmental stares in the grocery store when I was just trying to exist, to avoid the fear of public shame. Even now when I stand up from my chair to walk to the bathroom stall or reach something on a high shelf, I watch the corners of my vision for that telltale phone in the air. I feel like I'm never safe from the judgemental eye of the internet, even when I'm logged off, and I'm sure I'm not the only person who feels that way.
Tik Tok, YouTube, Instagram, these places are all great for disabled people, especially those of us without access to the outside world. But it's also become a source of great anxiety for anyone who's uncontrollably "weird", mostly disabled people. Leave us alone, I'm begging you, we just want to go to the fucking grocery store in peace and safety.
Tl;dr
Stop filming people for "acting weird" or "faking a disability" in public. It's ableist, it's invasive, it's creepy, and it's humiliating. People don't exist in public for your amusement and especially not disabled people. You don't know who is disabled and who isn't no matter how many disabled people you've known or how sure you are that the person is faking.
i’m pretty sick and tired of people in my life who don’t experience chronic pain trying to tell me how to manage my pain.
like i’m trying to manage it the best i can, but these people are focused on “fixing”. i don’t need to have people on my back trying to tell me to take herbs to fix my pain, as if i haven’t already tried it.
there’s no compassion behind these comments either, it’s just an abled savior complex.
Turns out pretty damn bad! He told the story on Tango's stream.
https://www.twitch.tv/videos/2260252044
The story starts around 48:50
I won't be using Alaska Air if there are any other options available.
(FYI: this isn't targeted at any specific individual, this is just in general. Thank you.)
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You wanna know what genuinely makes my blood boil?
How whenever I talk about my negative views on relationships and how I have the constant belief that everyone hates me and is secretly talking shit about me, people tell me that "oh you're invalidating my feelings! " "I'm not a bad friend" "You're being a dick!"
Yet when I call out someone for invalidating how I fell, I get told that it's not invalidating and that I'm the one making this an issue, and it just- AUUGGHHHHHH!!!
It also pisses me off how people can act the exact same way and not get shit for it whatsoever, but when I act like that, all of a sudden I'm a bad friend who's selfish?? FUCK THAT!
idc if some of these people have good intentions or not. If you tell me that you care for me and love me, and then turn around and get mad at me for still having negative views on my friendships, that is not "love", you're just being ableist.
It feels a lot like people are targeting ME specifically because I happen to have BPD, and idk if i'm overreacting or not but that really says something about these people's actual views on BPD.
I hate how people also expect me to be able to control those feelings, like genuinely what the ACTUAL fuck...
Someone can give all of their time an attention for the rest of their lives, and yet I will STILL perceive them ignoring me or their tone changing one day as a sign of them hating me, that is how my brain works.
I feel like people forget that one of the main symptoms of BPD is an instability in relationships, and that also comes with an unstable perception of those relationships. IT'S ONE OF TH MAIN CRITERIA FOR FUCK SAKE!!! It also comes hand-in-hand with paranoia too, which makes it worse because once you get into the thought, it's difficult to snap out of it.
idk man, I just wish people actually, you know, made my emotions feel valid???? God I hate people sometimes...
I dont know if this is trauma or not but.
long time ago people sexualized my Autism and I got so mad it.
I dont want my disabilty being seen as a fetish or something disgusting.
Like they comment that degenerating to me like "I bet he doesnt know sex is." like that shit Im soo mad from it. I hate being out with my autism I feel like it was a mistake I should never done. Why even people treat it as a "A boy who doesnt know sex." and shit.
we're not saying people with npd, aspd, ect cant hurt you or abuse you
we're saying disorder =/= abusive
people with npd, bpd, aspd, infact, ANY cluster b disorder CAN abuse you. HOWEVER, having those disorders dosent instantly make you an abuser
dont be abelist.
people with ANY disorder can abuse you. that dosent mean they WILL abuse you. the fact that they have that disorder dosent mean theyre an abuser. it dosent make them abusive. they can be abusive, that dosent mean suddenly every narcissist is evil, suddenly all aspd people are threatening you, all bpd people are rude and abusive. stop throwing around the word abuse like its nothing. stop specifically linking it to personality disorders. thats blatantly abelist.
ihope all cluster bs have a lovely lovely day please ignore the hate and abelism yall are so gorgeous treat yourself to your comfort food
Does anybody else dislike Bubble Bass's characterization in the newer seasons?
As someone who actually kinda likes the newer seasons (from season 10 onwards), one of the things that I have grown to really dislike is Bubble Bass's characterization in the newer seasons. It feels like they saw the "fat nerd" character trope and memes mocking fat men who like nerdy things and copy pasted that onto him, and they are not subtle about basing him of that trope it at all, for one, he lives in his mom's basement and is obsessed with action figures and comics, and in the patrick show episode "bubble bass reviews" they just hammer this in even more with him wearing cat ears and liking an in universe version of my little pony, and the episode being so in your face with how much of much of a disgusting slob bubble bass is, from his room being a mess and the stuff he eats getting all over his face and clothes like it's not even funny and it feels like 80% of the episode is dedicated to him being a gross slob and being extremely whiny and childish, and this isn't only in the patrick show, he's like this in the main series too and it just feels genuinely fatphobic and even ableist with how he constantly whines and throws tantrums and engages in typically childish interests. I also feel like it can really have a negative affect on the target audience of these shows and could teach them to make fun of fat/plus sized people who engage in nerdy interests.
Also the whole concept of making fun of internet critics just feels so out of place for but shows and it honestly just gives of the vibe that anyone who’s criticized the show is just like bubble bass, like I know that there has been people who have been very extreme and harsh on how they critique SpongeBob, but the way it’s handled it in the episode feels like they used bubble bass as a glorified soyjack