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Happy Lesbian Visibility Week to "Controversial" Lesbians!

He/Him Lesbians Nonbinary Lesbians Male Lesbians and Lesboys Straightbians and Gaybians Mspec Lesbians AroAce Lesbians

"Controversial" lesbians are amazing and powerful and deserve space in the lesbian community

y'all are really valid and i love y'all :3

i love you bi lesbians i love you pan lesbians i love you omni lesbians i love you poly lesbians i love you abro lesbians i love you gaybians i love you straight lesbians i love you lesboys i love you trans men lesbians i love you turigirls

happy lesbian visibility day to ALL lesbians! ❤️🧡🤍🩷💜

happy mspec lesbian day 💞

i love bi lesbians, i love poly lesbians, i love pan lesbians, i love omni lesbians, i love abro lesbians, i love all mspec lesbians! 💖💞💓

happy omnisexual and omniromantic pride and visibility day! 🩷💖🖤💙🩵

lesbians are gonna rule the world!

LOUDER FOR THE PEOPLE IN THE BACK! 📢📢

The queer community really normalized the words for fluidity and multigenderism but not the experiences at all.

I'm not the first to make this type of post, but I'm gonna go beyond just what the original said (and I'll edit this to include a link when I find the original again on my dash because it usually shows up once a week): we've normalize words like boygirl but most people haven't normalized actually being a boy and a girl, or a man and a woman, at the same time, and for fluidity they don't normalize actually being a boy or man and being a girl or woman at different times. Instead "boygirl" is just used like a label for androgyny or worse neutrality (nothing wrong with being neutral but being a boy and a girl is NOT that). We normalize the words bigender and genderfluid but never recognize them as actually having multiple genders. Bigender people are treated like half and half, and together androgynous or neutral instead of both of their genders at once, and genderfluid people are just seen like nonbinary people who use different pronouns and different times. We normalize the words but we don't normalize being sapphic and achillean, veldian and lesbian, a lesbian man or a veldian woman, straight and lesbian or straight and veldian. The things that are experienced by multigender people. We normalize the words but we don't allow bigender people to identify with anything other than "bigender" and we don't allow genderfluid people to identify with anything other than "genderfluid." If they want to label their orientations their options are mspec, trixic, toric, and enbian, and anything else is wrong. They're never allowed to say they're straight, and if they are allowed to be veldian/achillean or lesbian/sapphic (and they only get to pick one), they must degender themselves and pretend they don't experience womanhood or manhood.

Similarly, we normalize the word abrosexual but many don't allow abrosexuals to identify as anything but abro. They're not allowed to identify as any of the orientations they experience, even with some regularity. They might be allowed an mspec term - but they're never allowed to say they're veldians, or lesbians, and god forbid they identify as both. Even when they're experiencing being one of those things, it's not "allowed" for them to use the terms because the community deemed fluidity as not *really* the things they experienced because it's not permanent.

If we are gonna normalize the labels of multigender, genderfluid, and abrosexual can we actually get it in our heads that some people are multiple full genders at once, and if they're a man, a woman, and nonbinary, they are AS MUCH of a man as any monogender man, AS MUCH of a woman as any monogender woman, and JUST AS NONBINARY as any monogender enby? Can we get it though our heads that some people experience multiple full genders at different times, and they are AS MUCH of a man as any statically gendered man when they experience manhood, AS MUCH of a woman as any statically gendered woman when they experience womanhood, and JUST AS NONBINARY as any statically gendered enby when they experience enbanhood? Can we get it through our heads that some people experience multiple orientations at different times, and they are AS MUCH of a lesbian when they experience lesbianism, AS MUCH of a veldian when they experience veldianism, JUST AS STRAIGHT as any other straight person when they feel themselves straight, and JUST AS MSPEC when they experience attraction to multiple genders?

(there's also people who experience multiple orientations at once, statically, but we haven't even been normalized yet so. Yeah.)

; I'm not including xenogenders in this bc I'd be here for years /lhexg /gen, and also not acespec bc bad day so:

; the main arospec micro labels I use are cupioromantic, reciproplatonic ( not feeling and / or reciprocating platonic attraction unless the person in question feels / shows it first ), anovelaean, and romance-favourable, all compiled into usually using arofluix as a broader term !!

; it's kinda like, I have a desire for a platonic relationship, though don't really feel platonic attraction, but only feel that desire when someone else is interested first / crushes ( what's the word for platonic crushes again sob ?? /genq ) only form if said crush wants a platonic relationship first .. I also collect labels and terms because my aro identity is really complicated and I never feel like it's properly described 100% yk ?? Romance-favourable for like, I enjoy acts usually deemed as romantic but don't actually feel said romance lol. And then I'm fluid between the identities and also my aromantic-ness fluctuates in intensity as a basic description !!

; I also use omnilesbian, omnienbylean, and panaesthetic !! Essentially I am attracted to all genders but have a preference for any non-binary / neutral / xenic ppl, and my attraction to women is different from my attraction to men / enby people ( i.e. I like women romantically and sxually / the equivalent to what romantic and sexual attraction would be if I felt it, but I only ( only ) platonically* like men and enbies !! Also my attraction to women js feels very different ig lol ) But also my gender is fluid so that always complicates things lol. And then I feel aesthetic attraction to every gender seemingly without preference so yh !!

; and I also use a lot of gender micro labels but like .. Transmasc, genderfloren ( and xenofluid ) and autigender are the main ones !!

; this has ended up much longer then I thought it'd be but sigh. Excitement to js explain this all, I could probably talk ab it for hours istg it feels like I'm hyperfixated on my queer identity lmao /hj

; *platonically in the sense I want what is described as a platonic relationship w them and feel supposed platonic attraction to them but not actually, and I also struggle to differentiate platonic from romantic and aesthetic due to neurodivergency lol

Greetings queer folks of tumblr! I would like to hear about your microlabels! The most unique ones you have!

It would be most appreciated if you could inform me of them!

Feel free to go into as little or as much detail as you like!

I don't know who needs to hear this, or if it will even reach an audience at all, but you're valid. I'm talkin about the people who are constantly told they aren't valid by their own community: the lesboys, mspecs and everyone of the like. Those of us with 'contradictory' identities. The people who use neopronouns, nounself pronouns, emoji pronouns, and/or xenogenders. You're just as valid as the people who fit neatly into simpler, more 'acceptable' and 'normal' identities. And don't let anyone tell you different.

I know it's hard. I've witnessed a pan lesbian get doxxed on Twitter all because they identified as such. You see, people like us aren't what's harming the community, but some people will try to make you feel that way. Try not to let it get to you.

In celebration of my first hate reblog(/j), I'll be making another positivity post for the people who don't fit into boxes<3

Y'all are so cool for using the labels that feel right for you. You aren't harming ANYONE by being yourself, so don't force yourself into categories that don't feel right. You aren't being 'homophobic' by identifying as a bi lesbian. You're not invading lesbian spaces, you belong in them. Also, friendly reminder that mspec lesbians have existed long before a lot of us were born! :3

God I'm so fuckin tired of trying to find new xenogender servers to join and almost all of them are anti mspec lesbian/gay, anti endo, or both. Like Jesus Fuckin Christ, dude.

Anyway, if you're xenic and are an mspec les/gay or endo system (or supportive of mspec les/gays AND endo systems), please feel free to join our server. Yeah I got ya, this is an ad/hj

⚠️new plan for joining, DM me for a link to the server, as I am too bad at keeping up with replacing the link here⚠️

Also we're age regressor friendly.

Exclusionists, please respect that this is a safe space, so keep your opinions to yourself and leave us alone. Thanks. <3

Plain text: Exclusionists, please respect that this is a safe space, so keep your opinions to yourself and leave us alone. Thanks. <3

Oh, and any contradictory label havers/supporters are allowed. This includes, but isn't limited to, lesboys and gaybians. Hope to see you there!

Edit: so we've had a few people join and then leave — not that that's an issue! — so I feel the need to explain how to get verified if that has been or is a problem for anyone. You go to the channel labeled 'rules-verification' and fill out the form by interacting with it. Once the form is accepted by a mod, you'll be verified. Please note that you have to have an account (It can be on any platform, not just tumblr) that we can look at to ensure that you're chill (as in, not an exclusionist): this is a security measure to help keep this space troll free. Thank you.

Another edit: heads up, our mod team gets inactive at times, meaning the verification process can get rather slow. Additionally, if you're likely to just up and leave, maybe don't join the server; I don't mean to vague anybody, but we've had people do that and it causes me slight to moderate stress when people just… leave.

You're a lesbian if you feel like one. You're a lesbian if you also like men. You're a lesbian if you ARE a man. You're a lesbian if you're also aro. You're a lesbian if you're also ace. You're a lesbian if you're aroace—

⚠️Mild trigger warning for exclusionism⚠️

The 'lesbian means wlw' or 'non-men loving non-men' being used to delegitimize mspec lesbians is so fucking funny, cuz you wanna know something? EVEN THEIR OWN DEFINITION DOESN'T STATE THAT THIS ATTRACTION TO WOMEN IS EXCLUSIVE. Sure, you have exclusionists who add on 'exclusive' somewhere in the definition to make it fit their narrative, but overall 'wlw' is an inclusive term for every sapphic woman.

Exclusionists are so fucking stupid that they don't realize they're validating mspec lesbians with their definitions LMFAO

Friendly reminder that you aren't the problem, exclusionists are.

(Shameless self promotion)

Alternative Black cat lesbian flag

[ID: seven stripes, top to bottom: magenta-ish purple — with the next two stripes being creating a gradient by being slightly darker each time — crimson, dark blue — with the last two stripes creating a gradient by being slightly lighter each time. The left version has a black silhouette of a cat, with a white 'shadow', and the right version does not. End ID]

Definition: a lesbian that is seen as harmful to the community, much like black cats are seen as omens of bad luck.

Folly from Regretevator is a a-enby aroace omni-lesbian

Mach from Regretevator (Roblox) is an agenderfluid aroace omni-lesbian

Gwen from Total Drama is a Omni-lesbian

Ragatha from The Amazing Digital Circus is an omni-lesbian

I had so much fun at DC pride today.

Lesbian flag for me being an asexual lesbian (my ace flag was around my waist). The trans flag because I'm transneutral (FtN)