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Lesbian visibility week includes m spec lesbians and bi lesbians reblog if you agree
THE BASED DEPARTMENT CALLED AND UR HIRED.
um, actually yes, trans men can and will be lesbians. and each time you complain about them 3 (three) more trans men convert to lesbianism
; just learnt about bi lesbians from @noahizslay so thank you !! :]
Lesbian visibility week includes m spec lesbians and bi lesbians reblog if you agree
honestly as a butch, i just gotta say it: that "chivalrous knight in shining armor" crap is objectifying as hell and it's not fun, cute, or validating to apply to us, it provides a burden for us to bear, it makes us paranoid, tired, weary and feel like we're being reduced to a stereotype, or like we're being forced into a mold.
i'm not a knight just because i'm a transmasculine person who looks tough and can theoretically protect femme queers. i'm literally just standing here, being transsexual. i'm not inherently "chilvarous," i don't have any obligation to protect people just because i adopted the label "butch". what if i'm weak? what if the butch needs to be protected? what if the butch is disabled, traumatized, or just scared? i'm a wheelchair user.
why can't femmes protect their butches? why does it always have to be the butch being the chivalrous knight in our yearning posts and poems? why do we have to weave a performative ass narrative of the masculine partner swooping in to protect their defenseless feminine partner? how the HELL is this progressive or subversive at all? this is literally reinventing the binary.
the way the (white) cis lesbian community treats its butches is alienating as all hell. we are not here just to protect other people. we are not inherently protectors. we are not all strong. we are allowed to be weak. we are allowed to be scared. we are allowed to be hurt. we don't HAVE to protect our femmes, if we like femmes at all. not every butch is attracted to femme people in the first place.
butch isn't a lifestyle, it's not a set personality type. it's not a specific set of actions; it's just queer masculinity, that can be expressed by a multitude of queers for a multitude of reasons. it's not one specific set of traits. masculinity is not just found in protecting others and acting tough, it's also in being soft, vulnerable, weak and tender.
just let butches be people, don't turn us into objects before we even get out of the gates. all of this removes the human element of being butch. if the queer community can't afford that, we can't get it from anywhere, because we sure as hell aren't seen as humans by cisheteronormative society.
don't force me to see myself as a knight when i'm the one who needs help just because i'm masculine, or just because i'm a man.
butches need help, too.
self-made angel (colour alt under the cut)
And a happy lesbian day to all any/all pronouns transneutral lesbians
happy lesbian day especially to he/him transmasc lesbians thankyou
Also, being a lesbian radfem is fucking ironic, because they're acting like radical feminism didn't see and labeled lesbians as hypersexuals and a patriarchy replica for the masc/butch & fem labels and relationships.
why is it that the terf lesbians are always the most disgusting, unashamed and vitriolic in their hatred. terf lesbians imply that sleeping with trans women is a form of a corrective rape and that trans people are disgusting perverts for simply existing. wild.
Make America great again? No, hunny. Make Greece gay again!
@cin-tim
GREECE LEGALISED SAME SEX MARRIAGE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈
THE FACT THAT I'M A TRANS LESBIAN ARTIST NAMED ANGEL, LMFAO
self-made angel (colour alt under the cut)
"ill hold your boobs for you" TAKE THEM. I DONT WANT THEM. TAKE THEM PERMANENTLY !!
Can I call in horny to work?
Yeah boss, sorry, I can't make it in today. Yeah I'm not feeling too well. If I don't get railed within an inch of my life in the next 20 minutes I'm gonna put myself through a wall.
you're in her DMs, I'm bringing her bunny-shaped pancakes in bed we are not the same
If you ever feel invalidated by an exclusionist, please remember this post because I can assure you they don't know what they're talking about💀
⚠️trigger warning for of course exclusionist dumbassery, also this gets rant-y⚠️
I swear exclusionists have the most incoherent thought processes known to man dude cuz what is this shit
[ID: purple header text reading he/him lesboy flag/ hesboy flag! Under this text is plain black text reading based on these two flags: •reclaimed lesboy •he/him lesbian. Under this, red, bold text reads DNI, followed by rad inclus, terfs/transmeds, anti he/him lesbians & she/her gays, male/men "lesbians" in black plain text. End ID]
'Lesboy flag' and 'no man lesbians' in the same post... my brain is melting. Also... these people 'reclaimed' the term lesboy? Just to exclude a group of people who are lesboys? You do know that lesbians who also consider themselves men are also included in the lesboy term? Apparently not to these people. Butches who also consider themselves men? Sorry, not lesbians anymore. Multigender man lesbians? Nah sorry you're men so you can't be lesbians./sarc
[ID: blue header text reading Demiboy lesbian flag! Beneath this, quote text (at least I think that's what it's called) reads I couldn't decide on which ones to choose, so I'm posting all of them! Beneath this, much like the previous image, OP starts off their DNI with a bold red DNI, followed by black plain text. This text reads mspec "lesbians", radinclus, terfs/transmeds, radfems, men/male "lesbians", anti he/him lesbians and she/her gays. End ID]
Is that,, not excluding demiboy lesbians? Oh my bad, it's fine cuz they're only 'partially male' and therefore aren't ACTUALLY icky men invading lesbian spaces!/sarc
Also can I just say how fucking entitled it is to be all like 'mspec "lesbians"' with the quotes and shit? Like oh my god get over yourself, you aren't the leader of the lesbians™️ [trademark]. Bro thinks they're part of the lesbian council or some shit. 💀
Besides that, this has got to be one of the funniest examples of exclusionist stupidity I've ever seen. I can't get over it bro: 'demiboy lesbian flag!' 'Fuck off icky man lesbians!' In the SAME. POST. BAHAHA–
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It's rare that I feel the need to take screenshots and talk about them on my blog, but these are so poetically idiotic that I had to make a whole post dedicated to them. So yeah, sorry about your braincells lmao. But just know you're valid regardless of how you identify as a lesbian, and these are the types of people who think otherwise. Needless to say, they aren't really that credible.
[ID: a DNI banner with a purple background with lighter purple text reading DNI: system/queer exlusionists, TERFs/SWERFs, truscum/transmeds, anti recovery for harmful paraphilia, anti otherkin, anti self dx, pro cringe culture, pro-lifers, anti xenogender. A more detailed DNI is in my pinned post. A transparent png of Shadow The Hedgehog can be seen on the right, beside the text. He's holding his hand to his chest, his body facing the text and his eyes looking off to the distance. End ID]
It's 'support trans lesbians' until they're not binary trans women. Until they're trans masc, trans men, or masc AMAB non-binary people.
It comes off as vaguely performative to be honest.
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ID: a six-stripe flag. the colors, starting from the top, are: a soft indigo, a warm purple, a rose pink, a pink-tinted white, a muted blue, and the same soft indigo. the first image is the flag by itself, the second contains descriptions of what each color represents. then there are three more images, the first is a picture of cinnamoroll, a small white dog with long ears and a curled up tail, with flowers on the tips of his ears. the background is the previous flag. the second image is the original flag, but cropped into a square. the last one has the ambonec symbol (which is a circle with a diagonal line going through it, that also has a line coming out of the top with a cross through it and an arrow at the end, as a mixture of the male and female symbols) in a soft periwinkle shade on top of the original flag. lastly, at the bottom there is a thin banner made of the same pride flag.
this is my take on an ambonec lesboy flag! i've come to terms with the fact that this is the best way to represent my identity, and i just wanted a flag to go along with it. idk if it'll fit anyone else but it makes me happy to have my own flag :)
anyone who identifies as an ambonec (or anything similar) and a lesboy is more than welcome to use this, credit isn't required! i'd love to see anything you make with it though! :)
credit to autisticdata (deactivated :( ) for the ambonec pride flag, beyond-mogai-pride-flags for the lesboy flag (i believe?), your-bigender-big-brother for the ambonec symbol, and albelardo gonzález for the font (opendyslexic)
'Trans men can't be lesbians!' Damn that's crazy anyways I am a trans man lesbian and anyone else who uses the label is cool as fuck
LOL some TERF (literally a TERF, if they weren't they definitely sounded like one) went to one of my posts and screamed at me about how 'homosexuality isn't about gender nonsense'... And only picked at the lesbianism part of the post. Typical, really.
Anyways, repeating myself here but: lesbians can be men, lesbians can like men, lesbians can date men. This does NOT mean every lesbian HAS to do these things. Being queer is all about the freedom of identity.
"I support trans people!" quick, are you normal about the concept of transandrophobia? Do you think it's just 'white men trying to be oppressed'? Do you brush it off as merely misdirected transmisogyny? Do you scoff at the struggles of trans men and go 'but trans women have it worse! talk to a trans woman and see how bad THEY have it!'?
Do you use a trans man's chest size as an excuse for constant misgendering? Do you hold transmasculine people to a standard of needing to be feminine so to not scare the women, but proceed to not take their gender seriously if they do perform femininity? Do you use your horribly veiled misandry as an excuse to make trans men feel unsafe in queer spaces?
Are you normal about AFAB transfems and AMAB transmascs? Intersex trans people? GNC trans people? Trans people who use xenogenders? Trans people who use it/its or other neopronouns? She/her transmascs and he/him transfems? Can you acknowledge that, sometimes, people are simultaneously transmasc and transfem? Do you accept transmasc women, transfem men, etc?
Do you invalidate the identities of trans women who have beards, or present 'masculinely'? Do you see them as predatory posers? Do you go out of your way to misgender trans women who happen to actually be predators, because 'clearly they were just men'? Do you shame trans women for exploring their sexuality?
Are autistic trans people not able to make decisions on their own transition, as far as you're concerned? Are our ways of expressing and seeing gender 'stupid' to you? Is the concept of autigender too 'insane' to you? Do you see our gender identities as simply jokes?
Can you survive being around a trans man lesbian or a veldian (link) trans woman? Can you support a multigender person who is both gay AND lesbian? Can you include transmasculine nonbinary people in your 'support' of nonbinary lesbians?
I've used the term 'conditional support' a few times, but it is very much conditional support if you explode over one trans person's identity, and then turn around and act all supportive of another's. If all it takes for you not to support a trans person is how they label their gender or sexuality, how they present, what their body looks like, etc, you are not supportive of trans people! Your 'support' is very limited and strict. You have one rigid idea of what trans people are 'supposed' to be, and anyone who deviates isn't valid or worthy, and that is NOT the kind of behavior an ally should exhibit. It is not the way you treat other trans people, and it is far from supportive.
honestly I think it may be banned because of how reactionary of a topic it is, unfortunately. It's very likely a precaution to 'maintain the peace'. It still sucks though don't get me wrong, but I wouldn't jump to the conclusion that the mods all hold binarist expectations of orientation when they have a server to run
Are you kidding me. Imagine putting a marginalized identity on a "banned topics" list because it doesn't fit into your binarist expectations of orientation and gender.
also it's important to highlight the overall lack of choice. you can't control how your attraction feels.
a lot of the perception with male lesbians, specifically trans man lesbians, is the implication that Every trans man attracted to women is a lesbian so it’s misgendering. but that’s not what being a trans man lesbian is, it’s choosing the lesbian label. not every trans man attracted to women is a lesbian, but some are because they choose it. i’m not misgendering myself if these are the labels i choose because i’m using them in a way that reflects my own identity. ofc don’t assume every trans man is a lesbian bc that is misgendering but that’s not what being a trans man lesbian is