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omg I love ypur writing!! If you're still taking requests, could I ask for some relationship hcs for Scar with a short male s/o? :^o
AHDJFHSK THANK YOU, ANON!! AND YES, YES I CAN!!!
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Content: Male reader!!
Warnings: Some of my own personal relations are in here
Notes: I know I said in a previous post that I'd clear out my Transformers requests then move on to my newest requests, but this one I felt like I just had to do right away. Also these headcanons are all over the place lol
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Okay first thing, and no I will not be taking criticism on this, but Scar adopted Mei
This might also be me projecting, but for some context I grew up with single parents, and my mom was way more protective than my dad, so she'd date a guy for a while before introducing him to us. I only met two guys she's ever dated. It's a trust thing, and my mom had real bad trust issues
So, with that context, Scar would do the same thing with Mei
Yeah he'd talk about little Mei in passing, but you wouldn't meet her unless you've been dating him for a long time
Scar isn't very PDA oriented
He isn't very affectionate overall, really. Unless he's tired or drunk
Scar is a very private man, and he guards his past with a fierce aggression. He doesn't like talking about it
It would be a slow burn romance with him in the first place. He needs to trust you a significant amount before he even thinks about crossing into romantic territory with you
Back to the "not very affectionate" point, Scar would settle for small amounts of affection, but for the most part he wont initiate anything
He'll let you tug on him, kiss him, love him however much you want. But he wont return it in public. Behind closed doors and away from Mei? He'll return it, but casually
Will tease you about how you're shorter than him btw
Will absolutely rest his arm on your head and say "hello, my arm rest"
Scar's very strong, so he'll easily lift you up and place you on his lap or just hold you while walking somewhere
I'm fanning my face just thinking about it, tbh
While Scar isn't affectionate, he is slightly playful
He also likes being close to you
If he's jealous, he'll stand behind you with a glare, making it clear that you're his
If that doesn't work (idk how it wouldn't) he'd verbally say it
"He's mine."
After that, he'd most likely drag you away and do something else
He's gonna be super nervous when he has you meet Mei for the first time
Not because he doesn't trust you - if he didn't you wouldn't be in a relationship, much less meeting Mei
But it's mainly because he wants Mei to approve of you
That's another thing my mom would do - she would ask me and my siblings if we approved of the guy after he left, and told us she'd break up with him if we didn't
I feel like Scar would do that, too. Yeah it'd break his heart, but he has to think of his daughter and make sure she feels safe before himself
Thankfully, Mei and you would get along just fine
Mei wants to spend a bunch of time with you, and loves going to the park
I think it would be a year after you first meet Mei that Scar would ask you to move in
Scar's heart warms up and he gets the softest smile on his face when he sees you and Mei passed out on the couch, My Little Pony blasting on the TV
In the mornings, Scar will make fun of you for your bed head, but will gladly help you comb/brush/style your hair however you want (unless you don't have hair, then pop off, King <3)
Scar will also be more affectionate in the morning, but he's physically affectionate
Holding you from behind while you make breakfast for you, Scar and Mei, kissing your cheek before going to shower, sitting impossibly close together while you eat breakfast, Mei across from you two
When Scar is drunk, like I said earlier, he's a lot more affectionate than usual. He'll make out with you (obviously not in public or around Mei. Don't drink around minors, y'all) and paw at your body, but he wont do anything without your consent
When he's sleepy, he's a lot more calm about it. Instead he'll scoop you up in his arms and hold you. His head is in your neck, innocent kisses being placed there as he holds your body flush to his, tangling your legs with his, etc.
The most he'll do in front of Mei is holding your hand and sitting impossibly close with you. He doesn't feel comfortable kissing in front of his child