Am The One Who's Noticed How Fucking Weird People Get About Transmasc Bottom Surgery?

Am the one who's noticed how fucking weird people get about transmasc bottom surgery?

There's a ridiculous amount of body shaming and fear mongering about phalloplasty and metoidioplasty and I feel like I'm the only one who ever talks about it. The constant "well it's not a real penis/it's not a cis penis/ect" drives me nuts.

Especially when someone is talking about how they WANT bottom surgery and someone butts in like "l just don't think it fits my ✨aesthetic✨" as if anyone asked how much they hate phallo/metoidio

Have you noticed this?? Please tell me you have, I can't be the only one who finds it weird. It's actually incredibly disheartening as someone who wants metoidio to constantly see. If I said half the shit I see said about phallo/metoidio, about vaginoplasty instead people would lose it

I don't know how the hell I missed this message, but it's possible I saw it and didn't know how to reply at the time (I also have the tendency to have things slip my mind if I don't address it quickly enough). regardless, I have indeed noticed the behavior you're referring to. I, myself, have been affected by the rampant fearmongering around phallo/metoidio to the point that it affects my desire to get bottom surgery. That fucking sucks. I wish people could stop making those of us with bottom dysphoria feel like we'll never get a sufficient solution to the problem.

these people will actually tell queer people not to interact and think they aren't queerphobic. god bless, some people are really stupid

”mspec lesbians and lesboys DNI” BOOOOO!! 🍅 BOOOO!!!! 🍅 🍅 🍅

Game Theory is REALLY grasping at straws now, huh? this is up there with the 'Sans is Ness' theory and whatever batshit FNAF theories I don't remember from my childhood

whatever man. if you say so. fuck it

ID: tumblr tags that read 'yea my fucking teacher was talking about how narcissist is an inherently negative term and how it's something people need to grow and mature out of' end ID

how insulting. I've dealt with so much bullshit and ended up this way because it wasn't properly prevented, but it's MY fault? the trauma disorder is simply something I need to 'mature out of'? god I hate egotypicals more and more every day.

shut the fuck up about how Trump is a 'sociopath' and a 'narcissist'. It all just feels like an excuse to be ableist rather than a simple observation. quit it with the armchair diagnosing of narcissism and antisociality. I'm tired of leftist spaces so flippantly throwing these words around as synonyms to 'abusive cunt' as if there aren't narcissists and antisocials/"sociopaths" in these spaces too, as if we aren't valuable and good enough for you people.

it's one thing to make an assumption based on Trump's behavior, but to act like THAT'S the reason he's a fucking scumbag, all while laughing at the very traits you pointed out as signs of a fucking PERSONALITY DISORDER, really shows your ass. this isn't just holding someone accountable; it's reducing a group of disorders to being an abuser.

people instantly stop being mental health allies when it comes to being fucking respectful to cluster Bs. y'all stop being the 'tolerant left' when someone has a 'scary' disorder, and yes this also includes psychotic and schizospec individuals. I know this post won't stop the ableist behavior among leftists, but I'm tired of it. Leftist spaces are just as unsafe to me as someone with NPD and ASPD as right-wing spaces are to me as a trans and queer individual of color. that's fucking horrific.

I'm not the first and I won't be the last to say this, but leftists need to do better. stop using 'narcissist', 'sociopath', and 'psychotic' as insults. I'm not going to coddle you and hold your hand for spitting in my damn face; pick up a dictionary, since you're clearly capable of reading pop psychology articles on 'narc abuse'. it's not that hard.

ID: a tumblr comment by @/ukrainian-psycho that says '@/eldritchbauble I don't think a sociopath would've say "sorry" on a tumblr post' end ID

HELP, this is some fakedisordercringe type fake claiming.

(read in a Chills voice) top 15 ways to figure out if someone is faking ASPD: number fifteen, they say sorry. everyone knows that if the word 'sorry' appears anywhere in their messages or leaves their mouth, that isn't a true person with ASPD because real people with ASPD NEVER SAY SORRY!!! they feel NO REMORSE, so 'sorry' is not part of their vocabulary. they don't know what that word means. -that person, probably

also, I'm sure American Psycho fans are the true experts on ASPD./sar

Sorry I forgor to maintain the edgelord persona 24/7.

my mom loves to lie and like she always swears she was NEVER homophobic or anything to me as a child “i even have a gay work friend” but a really funny memory resurfaced recently where i asked if i could use birthday money i had to buy a rainbow flag when i was like ??? 7?? because i LOVED rainbows. and she said no that means something Evil and god will hate you . so what did i do. but ask my grandmom for a rainbow sweater for christmas and proceed to only wear that sweater for three years when it got cold because i didnt like the idea that god hated colors and i wanted to challenge him